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Connie Ruth's avatar

The significance of ritual is indeed undeniable.

However, when I was young, I was rebelling against the status quo and that included graduations. As I have gone through life I have come to value the importance of honoring transitions such as graduations for the very reasons your articulate so perfectly with these words:

"We then cross the next threshold of our lives fully conscious, aware, awake. We invite the fates, the cosmic energy, the winds of wonder, to dance at our sides."

A few years ago I felt prompted to offer a brief morning ritual to my teacher. This surprised me because I have framed myself as someone who "doesn't do rituals." However, I followed the prompt. And this daily ritual has created a morning touchstone to my inner Truth for which I am so grateful.

I am so impressed with Alisha's choreography! Wow! So expressive, dynamic and far-reaching and executed with such skill. It makes my heart sing to see this creativity emerge from younger generations. How lovely that your family had such a lovely celebration and how wonderful that you provided a heartfelt offering of light to the new graduates. I can only imagine how blessed they felt.

Thank you for sharing!

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Josie Rashmi Smith's avatar

Thank you for your loving and sincere words, Connie, and for watching Company Aether dance. You always offer deeply reflected comments, and I feel honoured that you read my words so thoroughly. Sending much love and gratitude your way.

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Kelly Louise Marshall's avatar

Lovely piece. Love the detail about why we wear robes at graduation. Never knew that. Also the arati ritual sounds gorgeous.

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Josie Rashmi Smith's avatar

Thanks Kelly, I was interested too, it’s funny what sparks our curiosity.

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Helen Rowlands's avatar

Having your own fridge! As one of four that was indeed a rite of passage even though I didn’t Uni. Lovely piece Josie 👍

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Josie Rashmi Smith's avatar

Thanks Helen. IThe fridge sparked memories for me also.

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Dr Asma Fischer's avatar

Congratulations!

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Wendy Varley's avatar

Congratulations to your granddaughter. Had a look at the video, thanks for sharing. So creative!

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val allen's avatar

Hi Josie it was a pleasure to read your reflections on rites and rituals in our lives and I appreciate what you have shared about Alisha's journey

Congratulations to Alisha and I want to say that her dance piece was really wonderful..the joy of movement, the physicality and the amazing fluidity of those young women was a delight to see.....many thanks ..valxx

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Josie Rashmi Smith's avatar

So glad you enjoyed it, Val. I will pass on your words to Alisha and Abi.

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Suzanne Burgess's avatar

Wow that dance was a joy to behold..great moves and music!

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Josie Rashmi Smith's avatar

Thanks Suz.xxx

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Anne Briscoe's avatar

Beautiful video! And such a thoughtful piece Josie, so often we lose sight in the rush to enter the next stage to fully honour what we are celebrating.

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Kole Flatau's avatar

I will consider my rites of passage, Josie. I think investing some awareness around this could broaden my field of vision and invite a whole load of interesting synchronicities hanging out in the periphery to step onto the path. It may also, paradoxically, sharpen the focus and reinforce a commitment to walk the path with confidence, like I belong there, by virtue of it being a rite of passage. A lovely read about ritual, family and love, Josie - thank you. And I loooooove the graduation dance. It was completely entrancing to watch.

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